What is Growth

What do you identify as strength and weakness? My mom gave me some good advice that is “think about your thinking” or meta-thinking. If you identify as a weakness your strength then you lose out. For example if you have a disorder / disease or limitation whats the work around for that. I have many limitations but they have lessened my limits. Lastly the best thing an adult can do is ask for help- if ones asked are unable to give it move on to the next .